Sometimes the most interesting part of my day is the time I spend walking back and forth between my house and the clinic. During the 20ish minutes it takes to get from one place to another, I pass a number of people- security guards, policemen, construction workers, school children, people selling goods on the side of the road, and others who, like me, are on their daily commute. Many will greet me with a friendly "bonjour" as they pass by. Some see me and call out, "la blanche!" which means, "white girl!" (Even though it sometimes bothers me to be called out simply because I look different, I know that they mean well so I try not to be offended.) And then there are the rare times when people ask me for things- some spare change, my phone number, if I will teach them English... Yes, my daily walks are definitely one of the most unpredictable parts of my day, and also probably one of my biggest cultural experiences.
As people greet me, they sometimes start a conversation. If they ask me anything beyond the basics--what is my name, where do I work, where do I live, where I am going--the conversation often ends with me apologizing and explaining, "Je ne comprends pas" (I don't understand). To be honest, I don't always appreciate these moments, especially if it is the end of the day and I am tired and just want to get home and eat dinner and speak English (or not speak at all). But sometimes I do have a good conversation with someone, like with the two teenaged girls I met who live down the road and who simply wanted to get to know me and tell me about themselves, or the small child I sometimes pass in the morning who waves at me and chants excitedly when he sees me coming, or clinic staff members who are also walking home at the end of the workday. These conversations help me to feel a little more connected to this place that still feels very foreign in many ways.
My daily commute can be tiring, unpredictable, and even confusing, but it can also be a much-needed reminder to stop, take a look around, and appreciate the sights and the people that I might otherwise miss.
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Sunday, November 20, 2016
Two months down
It's been almost two months since my arrival! I'm still feeling so so grateful for this opportunity. Here's a quick update about what I've been doing, and some important prayer requests for the mission (if you read nothing else in this blog, please scroll down to the bottom and pray).
Language learning/general adjustment:
I'm continuing to attend French lessons for two hours every morning, Monday through Friday, and definitely feeling more confident communicating with people. There's a long way to go for sure, but I'm seeing definite progress. I'm also feeling much more comfortable getting around town for whatever I need. I often walk, but taxis are very cheap (less than 50 cents per person to get anywhere in town). One time my taxi driver did get in a fist fight with another driver over who had the right-of-way in the roundabout, but I think that's pretty rare (and now I have a good story to tell).
Child sponsorship:
In addition to learning French, I'm starting to get more involved in the child sponsorship program as well. I work in the child sponsorship office usually one afternoon a week. During this time, I typically do administrative tasks, like entering the date of the children into a spreadsheet, uploading and organizing photos of some of the various activities, and so on. My past two weekends have also involved these kids. Yesterday (Saturday), I went with the kids to the local library, where they were able to learn about the library and how the books are organized, browse the different kinds of books, and each choose one book to borrow and take home. The week before, I went to the clinic and got to sit and listen as some staff members led the high school-aged girls in a discussion about how poverty can affect a person's life, and what we can all do to prevent that for ourselves and our families. These kids have so much potential, and I'm really grateful for the mission staff who show them how much they are loved, not only with kind and encouraging words, but also with tangible actions. As my French skills improve, I'll be doing a lot more home visits and teaching with the kids in the program, which is right up my alley. I'm excited to be part of this life-changing ministry, even if only for a few months.
Prayer requests:
Thank you for your prayers and your encouragement--it really does matter and make a difference. Here are some things you can specifically keep in mind as you pray:
1) Pray for the leaders of Coeur Ouvert (the child sponsorship program), as they seek to make a powerful, long-term impact on the lives of vulnerable children in the community.
2) Pray for wisdom, guidance, and initiative among those in the leadership of our churches, especially in light of some major changes and conflicts which have taken place over the last couple of years.
3) Pray for the clinic, which will soon be holding a grand opening for its new maternity wing.
4) Pray for my teammates--the Gable family, who has been faithfully serving here for 12 years, and several new teammates who will be arriving within the next several months or so (Jordan Woodard, Ian and Kristin Isely, and Courtney Pierce).
5) Pray for me, for continued strength and endurance, for my language learning, for my cultural adjustment, for wisdom about the future, for the boldness to step out and speak up when necessary, and that my gifts will be used to share God's love with everyone I encounter.
Language learning/general adjustment:
I'm continuing to attend French lessons for two hours every morning, Monday through Friday, and definitely feeling more confident communicating with people. There's a long way to go for sure, but I'm seeing definite progress. I'm also feeling much more comfortable getting around town for whatever I need. I often walk, but taxis are very cheap (less than 50 cents per person to get anywhere in town). One time my taxi driver did get in a fist fight with another driver over who had the right-of-way in the roundabout, but I think that's pretty rare (and now I have a good story to tell).
Child sponsorship:
In addition to learning French, I'm starting to get more involved in the child sponsorship program as well. I work in the child sponsorship office usually one afternoon a week. During this time, I typically do administrative tasks, like entering the date of the children into a spreadsheet, uploading and organizing photos of some of the various activities, and so on. My past two weekends have also involved these kids. Yesterday (Saturday), I went with the kids to the local library, where they were able to learn about the library and how the books are organized, browse the different kinds of books, and each choose one book to borrow and take home. The week before, I went to the clinic and got to sit and listen as some staff members led the high school-aged girls in a discussion about how poverty can affect a person's life, and what we can all do to prevent that for ourselves and our families. These kids have so much potential, and I'm really grateful for the mission staff who show them how much they are loved, not only with kind and encouraging words, but also with tangible actions. As my French skills improve, I'll be doing a lot more home visits and teaching with the kids in the program, which is right up my alley. I'm excited to be part of this life-changing ministry, even if only for a few months.
Thank you for your prayers and your encouragement--it really does matter and make a difference. Here are some things you can specifically keep in mind as you pray:
1) Pray for the leaders of Coeur Ouvert (the child sponsorship program), as they seek to make a powerful, long-term impact on the lives of vulnerable children in the community.
2) Pray for wisdom, guidance, and initiative among those in the leadership of our churches, especially in light of some major changes and conflicts which have taken place over the last couple of years.
3) Pray for the clinic, which will soon be holding a grand opening for its new maternity wing.
4) Pray for my teammates--the Gable family, who has been faithfully serving here for 12 years, and several new teammates who will be arriving within the next several months or so (Jordan Woodard, Ian and Kristin Isely, and Courtney Pierce).
5) Pray for me, for continued strength and endurance, for my language learning, for my cultural adjustment, for wisdom about the future, for the boldness to step out and speak up when necessary, and that my gifts will be used to share God's love with everyone I encounter.
Sunday, October 23, 2016
Little by little
I arrived in Abengourou on September 23, and today is October 23, which means I've been here for one month! And I can honestly say that Ivory Coast is beginning to feel like home--for now.
Between moving on campus, my parents' move to Cambodia, and now my temporary move here, the concept of "home" has been a bit confusing over the past few years, so I use the term fairly loosely. But as I spend more time here, I find many of my surroundings becoming familiar and comfortable, rather than confusing and foreign, like they were at first.
For me, building relationships is a key to feeling "at home" in a new place. It's nice to know people and, in turn, to be known and recognized, isn't it? To walk into a place and have someone familiar come up and greet you and ask how you have been? As I get into my regular routine, there are a few key people who I am fortunate to spend time with each week and experience such familiarity with--like my French tutors, my language partners, and many of the clinic staff members.
The women in the social services office are some of my favorites. On Monday afternoons, I usually go to their office for a couple of hours, help with small tasks like filing, and practice my French. This past Monday, it was a pretty slow afternoon, so I got some time to talk to Fatou. She asked me if, after my nine months are up and I leave, I am going to come back here to Ivory Coast. I told her I don't know, and that it is sad [to think about not knowing whether I will return here again]. And I really meant it. Ivory Coast is becoming so special to me, and I know that it will be sad to leave in June. Fatou agreed, and simply reminded me, "Dieu est grand" (God is great). And that simple, yet faithful statement stuck in my head as I walked home.
Later that evening I wrote in my journal, "I can feel this place slowly starting to creep into my heart, little by little." Every little moment like the one I had with Fatou, I feel just a little bit more connected and a little bit more at home.
Between moving on campus, my parents' move to Cambodia, and now my temporary move here, the concept of "home" has been a bit confusing over the past few years, so I use the term fairly loosely. But as I spend more time here, I find many of my surroundings becoming familiar and comfortable, rather than confusing and foreign, like they were at first.
For me, building relationships is a key to feeling "at home" in a new place. It's nice to know people and, in turn, to be known and recognized, isn't it? To walk into a place and have someone familiar come up and greet you and ask how you have been? As I get into my regular routine, there are a few key people who I am fortunate to spend time with each week and experience such familiarity with--like my French tutors, my language partners, and many of the clinic staff members.
The women in the social services office are some of my favorites. On Monday afternoons, I usually go to their office for a couple of hours, help with small tasks like filing, and practice my French. This past Monday, it was a pretty slow afternoon, so I got some time to talk to Fatou. She asked me if, after my nine months are up and I leave, I am going to come back here to Ivory Coast. I told her I don't know, and that it is sad [to think about not knowing whether I will return here again]. And I really meant it. Ivory Coast is becoming so special to me, and I know that it will be sad to leave in June. Fatou agreed, and simply reminded me, "Dieu est grand" (God is great). And that simple, yet faithful statement stuck in my head as I walked home.
Later that evening I wrote in my journal, "I can feel this place slowly starting to creep into my heart, little by little." Every little moment like the one I had with Fatou, I feel just a little bit more connected and a little bit more at home.
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Small Victories at the Bread Store
I stopped at the bread store on the way home from my French lesson yesterday. My request for one baguette was met with a shake of the head from the man behind the counter, and a string of French that I could not understand. I think he was saying they were out of baguettes, and was pointing out my other options—but I’m not positive. Feeling a little helpless, I used my broken French to say, “I’m sorry, I don’t understand.” He asked (in French) if I speak English (yes), and then asked his co-workers if they speak English (nope). I still really wanted to buy some bread, so I pointed to something that looked fairly basic, called “Saint Thomas,” and was asked “un ou deux?” (“One or two?”) Despite all the confusion, I came away with these two delicious loaves for less than a dollar, and was even complimented on my French (LOL—thanks for being nice to the clueless American).
Even though my trip to the bread store didn’t go exactly as planned, I still see it as a success in some ways. It was a chance to practice my French, interact with the locals, and make a purchase, all on my own.
Living in a new culture (or in any big transition), I think it is so important to celebrate the small victories, because honestly, sometimes they are all you can really cling to.
Here are a couple other small victories I have experienced in the last week:
Walking from the house to the clinic (and back), without anyone telling me which way to go, and even without street signs (yes, I am now living “where the streets have no name”). It’s not a particularly far or difficult walk, but given my bad sense of direction, this is definitely an accomplishment.
Being able to greet people, and express basic information (my name, how I am doing, where I am going…) in French.
Sometimes I get frustrated by the little things that I am not able to do here. But I am also trying to thank God for everything that goes right, no matter how small.
Even though my trip to the bread store didn’t go exactly as planned, I still see it as a success in some ways. It was a chance to practice my French, interact with the locals, and make a purchase, all on my own.
Living in a new culture (or in any big transition), I think it is so important to celebrate the small victories, because honestly, sometimes they are all you can really cling to.
Here are a couple other small victories I have experienced in the last week:
Walking from the house to the clinic (and back), without anyone telling me which way to go, and even without street signs (yes, I am now living “where the streets have no name”). It’s not a particularly far or difficult walk, but given my bad sense of direction, this is definitely an accomplishment.
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| The map that Stephanie drew me of the walk between the house and the clinic :) |
Being able to greet people, and express basic information (my name, how I am doing, where I am going…) in French.
Sometimes I get frustrated by the little things that I am not able to do here. But I am also trying to thank God for everything that goes right, no matter how small.
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Five days in: Getting settled
Five days ago I stepped out of the airport into the humid Abidjan air, and said hello to this country that will be my home for the next nine months. Since then, I’ve been working on getting adjusted and finding my new normal.
Meet the Gables: Andy, Stephanie, Clay, Ellie, Caeden, Sage, and Olivia. The Gable family has been living and serving here in Ivory Coast for about 12 years. Since my arrival, they have been incredibly helpful, answering my many questions (like, “What do I do with my trash?” and, “Where should I buy eggs?”), getting me settled into the house I’m staying in (right next door to theirs), inviting me over to eat with them while I figure out shopping and cooking, showing me around town, introducing me to different people and aspects of the ministry, discussing my role here, and so on. The kids often come over to my house ready to play a card game or just hang out. It’s nice to feel so welcomed, and I have no doubt that the transition would be much more difficult without the Gables’ hospitality.
Now that I am starting to feel settled, I’m looking forward to getting involved in the ministry. The first step of that will be language-learning. This will be my main focus for at least my first couple of months here. Tomorrow I will begin having French lessons five days a week. In my short time here in country, I’ve quickly realized how useful it will be to have a working knowledge of French and to be able to relate to Ivoirians in their own language.
Prayer requests:
-That I will be able to pick up the language quickly
-For daily courage to step out of my comfort zone
-For the Global Leadership Summit which will be held here in Abengourou for the first time in October
Meet the Gables: Andy, Stephanie, Clay, Ellie, Caeden, Sage, and Olivia. The Gable family has been living and serving here in Ivory Coast for about 12 years. Since my arrival, they have been incredibly helpful, answering my many questions (like, “What do I do with my trash?” and, “Where should I buy eggs?”), getting me settled into the house I’m staying in (right next door to theirs), inviting me over to eat with them while I figure out shopping and cooking, showing me around town, introducing me to different people and aspects of the ministry, discussing my role here, and so on. The kids often come over to my house ready to play a card game or just hang out. It’s nice to feel so welcomed, and I have no doubt that the transition would be much more difficult without the Gables’ hospitality.
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| The open-air restaurant where we ate lunch today. The meal (rice, peanut sauce, and beef) cost less than $2 per person! |
Now that I am starting to feel settled, I’m looking forward to getting involved in the ministry. The first step of that will be language-learning. This will be my main focus for at least my first couple of months here. Tomorrow I will begin having French lessons five days a week. In my short time here in country, I’ve quickly realized how useful it will be to have a working knowledge of French and to be able to relate to Ivoirians in their own language.
Prayer requests:
-That I will be able to pick up the language quickly
-For daily courage to step out of my comfort zone
-For the Global Leadership Summit which will be held here in Abengourou for the first time in October
Monday, September 5, 2016
Great Expectations
I officially leave in 15 days. People have been asking me, "Are you excited?" And I can quickly and enthusiastically answer, "Yes!" But, for the sake of honesty, I often add, "...but I am also pretty nervous, and a little overwhelmed at all that needs to be done before leaving." People are pretty understanding of this, as I imagine anyone who has gone through a big life transition has probably experienced this same tension. I'm looking forward to this next step, but it brings with it many unknowns.
In my weakest moments, it is easy to let fears creep in. What if I'm not cut out for this type of ministry? What if I get sick? What if, what if, what if? Of course, I know that it does no good to spend time thinking about everything that could possibly go wrong. During one conversation with a friend about my nervousness, she reminded me that this is something I am feeling called to. My main purpose in going is to serve God and His people, and as long as I keep that as my goal first and foremost, nothing else matters.
So instead of dwelling on my fears, I am trying to examine my expectations. It's only natural to have some expectations, and I think a big challenge is to remain optimistic, but keep expectations as realistic as possible. While I wholeheartedly believe this is the right next step in my life, I also know it is not always going to be easy. I want to prepare myself for the inevitable imperfection in all areas of this next step, such as my living space, the people I will encounter, the new language, the food, the weather, the ministry, etc., but I want to do so in an optimistic way, trusting that God will use everything, good or bad, for his purposes.
During this time I've also decided to set myself a few goals for my time in Ivory Coast. Hopefully this will help to keep me on track when I am feeling overwhelmed.
1) Invest time and energy into learning and practicing the language and the culture
2) Gain a strong understanding of CMF's current ministry in Ivory Coast, and future dreams/plans
3) Get to know people--spend time with them, ask them questions, and really listen to their answers
4) Find my niche in the ministry
5) Grow in my love for God by spending time with Him and His people
6) Seek guidance and wisdom about the next step in my life, and how I can remain involved in God's mission in the world
Please pray with me as I finish up this preparation, physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
5) Grow in my love for God by spending time with Him and His people
6) Seek guidance and wisdom about the next step in my life, and how I can remain involved in God's mission in the world
Please pray with me as I finish up this preparation, physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
Thursday, July 28, 2016
Is it safe?
Since announcing my move to Ivory Coast, family members and friends have been incredibly kind and supportive, but also understandably a bit concerned. One big question I have received is, "is it safe?"
This is a valid question. The world is kind of scary right now. West Africa is somewhat known for political conflicts, wars, and diseases. There was an attack at a beach resort in Ivory Coast in March, killing 16 innocent people.
I don't want to take any of this lightly, but I can confidently reassure you that there is no inherent danger to me or the missionaries I will be working with. The kind of work we are doing, in the location we will be living and serving, does not place us as a target of any kind.
This question about safety was one of the first things my own family brought up when I mentioned the possibility of me serving in Ivory Coast. They had heard some things about that part of the world, and wanted to make sure that I was not going to be thrown into a dangerous situation.
Here are a couple of reasons that I am not worried about my personal safety:
- The last political unrest in Ivory Coast occurred five years ago, following an election. Since then, their economy has been growing very quickly, and Ivory Coast is now considered one of the more stable countries in Africa.
- The attacks this past March were in a location that is at least four hours away from CMF's ministry location. While the missionaries (and I) will be extra careful when traveling to major cities or areas where large groups of Westerners gather, they do not feel threatened by the situation in their current location. Since they are the experts on the field and they are not worried (and they have five children who they want to protect), I will trust their guidance in this situation.
- Ivory Coast has had no reported cases of ebola.
- The biggest danger I could reasonably face is malaria, but even this should not be a problem, since I will be taking prophylaxis medication to prevent malaria, and even if I were to contract the disease, it is very treatable in CMF's own clinic.
I so appreciate everyone who has taken the time to talk to me about Ivory Coast and my ministry there, and completely understand your concerns. The world is sometimes scary and dangerous, no matter where you are. I believe that Ivory Coast is actually a very safe place for me right now, and will be praying that it continues to be a stable location for not only me, but the millions of people who call the country home. Will you join me in praying?
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